How A Lady Learned Anal Sex
Your nurse Yvonnie is here.
It s been a very busy and busty environment dito sa hospital. The patients and PUIs just keep coming. Kagagaling lajg namin ng asawa ko sa quarantine ay may direct order agad ang chief of hospital namin to go straight sa duty. Kokonting nurses nlang kasi ang natitira dahil andami nang nagpopositive o nagiging PUI nowadays. I cant wait for that vaccine. Confident din ang asawa ko to take it once naging available kasi sobrang exposed kami sa pasyente. Di ko na tuloy naaalagaan ng husto yung baby boy ko.
Anyways, gusto kong sagutin ang isang question na madalas na naitatanong sa akin dito.
How to Make a Woman try anal sex?
This is a very frequent question for couples kahit sa amin sa ospital.
The method may not be simple and easy pero sabi sa isang research na lahat ng babae ay may hidden urge to try out anal sex. Madalas it only goes unwanted because of doubts so the most important thing is to slowly remove the doubt.
You might want to attempt anal sex with your lady yet you don't know how she may respond. Madalas talaga inaayawan. Kahit ako nga ayaw ko din sa simula.
Ito ang malaking secret. Women psychology sexperts claimed in one of their studies that ladies are always interested to try out anal sex.
However, most ladies think anal sex is excessively hard at first , making first attempts doubtful as a result of inconvenience, insecurities or painful terrible experiences. Ladies focus more on the risk while men generally focus on the goal(which is anal sex). So its up to the guys to take initiative. Lalaki talaga ang didiskarte at magdadala.
Some girls possibly had anal sex in the past and some may be one of her most bad sexual encounters. Oo, noong high school ako madalas nakakatry ako ng anal sex. Masakit talaga sa pwet lalo na at hindi pa uso ang lube noon. Puro condom na may baby oil lang. Guys become a real pain in the ass often.
Bago mo sabihin sa isang babae na gusto mong makipag anal sex sa kanya, mas effective ang paraan na hayaan mong siya na mismo ang magkaroon ng need to try it by herself.
This is a great approach to make your girl develop her curious need to attempt anal sex independently. Baka Di mo namamalayan na sinusibukan na palang finifingger ng asawa mo ang butas ng pwet niya kasabay ng pempem niya whenever she misses your dick.
Madalas kasi nakakabitin na ang magfingger nlang.
From the anatomical kamasutra perspective, anal sex is very very pleasurable for ladies due to numerous high end concentrated nerve endings around the rectum, anal wall ang anal canal dividers.
You can use this learnings to your benefits in stimulating your ladys ass.
The the most ideal way to provoke your young lady to attempt anal is by first teaching her the joy of anal foreplay. Getting your lady attached to anal play step by step will slowly let her unwind and make her more comfortable seeing your great inviting approval to the possibility of anal sex. Simulan mo sa anal fingering.
I remember my hubby always inserting his lubricated fingers in my butthole habang dinodoggy style niya ako before the eve of our anal adventures.
Unfailingly like me, your lady will then permit you to 'play her butthole even more, at long last getting even bigger chances to full anal entry when the mood and time is correct and both of you are ready. (I recommend doing it in the shower for the first time. I handa ang lube at condom for convenience)
Try then to relate anal excitement with sexual joy. Invoke her hidden sexual desire. The best time to do this is at the point at which you are eating her pussy(cunnilingus) or during sexual intercourse, when your lady is really turned on the most. "Nalalasing" ng libog.
Dagdagan mo pa ang libog ni misis. Do Massage her lower body especially along her butt cheeks before sexually massaging and finally fingering her clit.
While going down on her pussy, notice her action pushing her knees upwards, toward her face. This is the perfect time to run your tongue in her personal parts as near her butt.
Pansinin mo kung nasasarapan siya sa ginagawa mo.
If your foreplay is stirring her, continue doing it. Try mo nang larularuin o i-massage ang butthole niya. If your lady begins resisting, back off a bit then attempt next time or later on when her body agrees to your advance. Redo this again and again tuwing nagsesex kayo until your delicate rimming on her butthole becomes a favorite habitual piece of your foreplay.
You will eventually receive her invitation to anal foreplay automatically next time. This will be your perfect moment. After working up her pussy, go down on her then wear a condom and lube up.
Spank her if shes into it then use your fingers to massage her butt.
Paghiwalayin ang kanyang mga monay then observe for her reaction.
(My husband also occassinally do this during doggy style sex when Iam leaning in my fours)
When your lady reacts positively, proceed. May On and off chance pa rin na tatanggi ang babae dito but return to stimulating her parts kung sakali. You can massage her breasts or try kissing her. Just Act like nothing happened para hindi siya makahalata sa iyong anal surprise.
Keep on massaging her pussy while fuking her from behind.
When she squirts a lot and become really wet, your lady will significantly be more open to wanting hardcore and attempting more dirty sex. It's important for the guy to control himself. Don't enter her ass until you get some more positive reaction. Tatanggi talaga kahit sinong babae pag nabibigla.
When your lady gives more positive input, talk dirty. Tell her that you want to taste her virgin part. Ask for her butthole.
Out of some shame, She will be obliged to give it to you.
"Sayang naman at may ibang ari na ang nakabiyak dito sa pagkababae mo"
"Baka naman pwedeng ako naman ang unang makatikim dito sa isang virginity mo.."
Now is a great opportunity to lube your finger up and play with her clit some more while entering her cave. Move your finger slowly at first. Simply hold it set up for a few moments. Ibuka mo ng husto ang mga butas niya streching also hes anus so she gets used to the feeling that something is inside her.
When your lady moans or approves your advances, (and she ought to at this moment), finger her pussy with your entire finger and begin making slow roundabout movements with your wrist.
She will intimately feel this movement inside her. Automatic na ding mag oopen mg bahagya ang anal canal niya afyer being stimulated like this. Incitement of a lady's clitoris or areolas excites the anal canal. Do some more foreplay ang make her crazy. Lick her tits, vagina and kiss her while fingering her this way.
For sure, this exciteing foreplay will begin to diminish your ladys restraints and make her feel wanting even more.
Exploit her in this uninhibited state.
Talk dirty some more and you can advance to the point where she will ask you to do anything you want to her. This is the chance for you guys to infiltrate her butt with a finger, then two, afterwhich continuing to utilizing a little sex toy like a buttplug.
Finally, wearing a condom, lube up again and enter her butthole slowly.
Hayaan niyong maunang pumasok ang ulo ng ari ng dahan dahan kasi dito ang pinakamasakit na part lalo na pag first timer ang babae.
If his head enters successfully, hugutin ng dahan dahan at ipasok uli in the same manner.
Hayaan niyong kilalanin ng pwet niya ang matiyagang panauhin sa loob.
Give it to her slowly until you feel that her butt can swallow you dick fully. Minsan hindi nagkakasya sa loob kaya try to finger your ladys pussy para lalong lumuwag ang butas ng pwet niya.
Fuk her butthole slowly ang let her take the build up of pleasure of stacking orgasm.
Final Nurses notes:
Ladies would generally love the feeling of ejaculating your sperm inside their anus.
Nag enjoy talaga ako after my first anal sex with my hubby. Ako din naman. Nagustuhan ko talaga ang feeling na sabay kaming umuungol at nag eenjoy. Ang sarap ng feeling habang umuungol kaming hinihila niya ang buhok ko at sinasakal ako ng asawa ko habang sinasakal ng butas ng pwet ko ang ari niyang pilit dumudulas palabas at papasok. I feel really dripping wet sa dami ng katas na lumabas sakin all the while na finifinger niya ako while fuking my butthole. It helps a lot.
I personally loved the part when he released his cum inside my butthole for the first time at nararamdaman ko pa ang tibok ng puso niya sa ari niya na nasa loob ng pwet ko.
Hay nakakamis talaga nung mga panahon na naadik ako sa anal sex at inaraw araw namin. Sa ngayon distansiya kami ni hubby at nagpositive nga ang swab niya.
Goodbye for now.
See you soon.
Ang inyong lingkod na nurse na nagmamahal, Yvonnie.